The old expression is…”You can take the girl out of Texas but you can’t take Texas out of the girl.” . A statement that holds fast even now while I am in France. It was an unexpected move for sure. I had a full time job as a nurse at a physical rehabilitation hospital in Houston, Texas. My husband had a full time job managing a store and restaurant. We were simply going to France to see my husbands parents who are French. I boarded the plane for France and never went back to the USA. It all happened in a whirlwind.
In the beginning I did not miss home even a little. I loved meandering the streets of Montpellier and swimming in the Mediterranean Sea only 10 min tram ride from my home.I adored trying all the wonderful French food! I was fascinated by the creaminess of the butter, the pungent cheeses, and the glossy pastries! However, homesickness came knocking.
I was really starting to miss my family and honestly the American way of eating and drinking!! I think the hardest part for me was missing my Texas traditions. I would longingly watch youtube and reminisce about how much I loved attending the rodeo at home. I really missed that Texas feel. I missed jumping into my SUV and every other channel was country or Spanish music. We lived in a predominately Hispanic area and I loved everything about that. I had a choice. I could wallow in what I missed or explore this new culture of mine. I started taking walks to an area where I could feed horses. I blast my ipod with George Straight, Dolly Parton, and many other country bands to get my fix. I found that I could bring my own background and culture and mix it with France. I could long for something I left behind or I could simply bring all my hobbies and likes to my new country.
I decided it was time to integrate but still hold onto my roots. I had to teach my toddler where he was born and where we come from as well as embrace out new found home. The main thing that every Texan knows is Mexican food is a must and a part of daily living. I started searching the aisles of Carrefour and Auchan to find ingredients to make my homemade quesadillas. I made tacos from scratch, fajitas, and guacamole! I would cook large dinners and serve them to family and friends. My French friends and family absolutely adored it! We had big parties and I even had a friend host a Cinco De Mayo party complete with margaritas, tacos, and pico de gallo. We had all the fix ins as we say in Texas!!! I blasted mariachi music and other Mexican artists I love!! It was great! It is quite easy to cook the things you love in France. They have everything you need normally and if not online products can be found. I am very close to the border of Spain so I can go there and get many of the same products needed.
My family celebrates Thanksgiving complete with my specialty cajun spiced injected turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing and mac and cheese. My French family also thinks this is fun and exotic and I just feel happy sharing. It is almost more fun when you get to share it with those who are so excited to try out a new holiday. I host a 4th of July party complete with hot dogs, hamburgers, chips and grill out! We all swim and listen to American music. Last year my friends’ daughters even played the Star Spangled Banner National Anthem and they put their hands on their heart and were proud to show me they were joining in the patriotism. They baked me a cake with an American flag.
Honestly, sharing these traditions with my new friends and French family has been exhilarating. The French are very open people and kind hearted. They also admire many American traditions and they enjoy joining in most times. I celebrate Halloween with my friends and dress and decorate the house with spooky things and buy candy.
My French husband loves the cowboy culture of America so we decided to get our PACS here in France. We had a small country themed wedding. We wore stetsons, cowboy boots purchased in France, and wore yellow roses. (This is the state flower of Texas). The mayor and loved seeing it and even strangers outside of the mayors office admired our outfits and wanted to discuss where I came from. There is nothing a Texan likes more than talking about Texas. I can do this here and not annoy anyone. I love even more when the French explain their culture and traditions and we exchange thoughts on the differences. Then, I get to choose to blend the two and have the best of both worlds.
I have moved to France and this country has been good to me. I will always celebrate my roots because I am proud. But, I am also proud of living in this beautiful country full of history and charm. The blending of the two cultures gives me a feeling of adventure as well as contentment.
I am a Texas girl born and raised. I had many jobs from bartender, radio DJ to nurse. I love a good glass of wine and spending as much as possible with friends and my French family here in the south of France.